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Jennifer Schiffer's avatar

When that person at the deli slices the exact amount of meat you asked for, notice! That's me, and my small triumph some days. People people people can drain you in customer service, but they can give back a little hope as well.

Actually heard a mom say to her kids, "People are grumpy at Christmastime, but we're going to be kind. I'msorry you had to see that grumpy person." Wow! 🩷

Carly Owens's avatar

I love this so much. Today I complimented the janitor on the clean windows at the pharmacy, because they're always so pristine. That's not by accident!

Side note: My mom was excellent at folding towels, and to this day, I have no idea how she did it so uniformly. I have made peace with the fact mine will never look as good as hers did.

Brad Montague's avatar

CARLY. The towels! Yes! Some people do seem to have a knack for it and I ... not.. .have it. Ha. Glad to be in good company. Thanks for the encouraging words, friend.

Chad Oba's avatar

I love folding my towels. It’s something I can do well and makes me smile and feel a sense of accomplishment and even peace when I see them all stacked up with their folded edges all aligned. Unlike the rest of my life that is crazy misaligned with the edges sticking out and more to take care of. I wonder what your Mom got from her perfectly beautiful folded towels?

Carly Owens's avatar

I love that! She probably got something similar out of it.

Hit Pause with Jess Cudzilo's avatar

I’ve become so picky about what I’ll give my eyes to on a screen (the children take majority of my energy in the daytime), but when I see a new post from you I always choose to read. You keep it real and you offer hope. Depth and light. Thank you.

Janet Abel's avatar

Thank you for this :)

Ann Gurka's avatar

I absolutely love this and find it so inspiring! I will bookmark it and return to this reminder of astonishment as an anchor in this beginning year…

Brad Montague's avatar

Ann, so grateful for you. Happy this found you! Thanks for the kind words.

Regina's avatar

Gut punches galore this week. And then knucks on Sunday from your tiny nephew. I tried to "notice" a lot this season. It made it better- and harder. Yesterday our family ventured out to return items that didn't quite fit or weren't exactly the color we were wanting. At one store I noticed an employee I hadn't seen this season. I remembered her because we share our first name. I greeted her by name and told her why I remembered. We chit-chatted while she rang me up, and I asked if she enjoyed her holiday. She replied with such genuine contentment that she really had. She had Christmas Eve off. She said she thanked her boss profusely and was able to spend the holiday with her daughter who lives in Nashville. It's been a heavy week, but I walked out of the store with tears in my eyes, so happy for her joy.

Brad Montague's avatar

Oh Regina, thank you so much for these words. I'm convinced if everyone could get knucks from that little dude, the world would be a-ok. You and your family are bright lights in my life and to all in your paths. So encouraged by you and all this.

Stephanie Gemperline's avatar

Reading this made my heart glow a little. Thank you.

Brad Montague's avatar

This is such high praise. Thank you. Truly.

Grace Boda's avatar

If I could put a hundred hearts on this, I would. Ok, I’ll get a running start….💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

Brad Montague's avatar

haha! This made me laugh. Thanks so much, Grace.

Erica Stadler's avatar

I was thinking today over your genuine optimism and sincere hope (actually after reading 'Sticky Notes' by Matt Eicheldinger- are you familiar? I feel like you could be besties). I'm trying to be the best me I can be and always feel encouraged when I read your pieces. Thank you.

Brad Montague's avatar

I've yet to be in the same room with Matt, but we're connected online. Thank you so much for these kind words and for the reminder to check out his book!

Michaele Rosen's avatar

So grateful for your shares, each and every time. You are a gift 💝

Here’s to peace & sanity in 2026….Joy too! 😉

Brad Montague's avatar

Ooooo I like that wish for 2026. With you.

Jacob Souva's avatar

Lovely, Brad. With you 💪

Brad Montague's avatar

Thanks so much, Jacob. It's been a blast seeing your grow and share and just be who you are. You and your work are a lighthouse to many.

Jacob Souva's avatar

Thank you, Brad. Your words and the way you move through the universe are inspiring. Joy to you and yours!

Ajay Yadav's avatar

loved this so much

Brad Montague's avatar

Thanks so much! Really grateful you’re here

Chris McDuffie's avatar

Bravo! Brad, you are a gifted grown up that I aspire one day to be like. You are insightful, honest, and so relatable. Continue using your God given talents to reach others.

Brad Montague's avatar

Chris, what a gift you are. What a gift these words are. Thank you, friend.

brooke snyder's avatar

🥰

Brad Montague's avatar

Sure do love your family! Sending you all so many cheers

Marc Joblin's avatar

Thank you again for your words of wisdom that are always eye openers for this guy at appropriate times!

Brad Montague's avatar

Really means so much, Marc. So grateful for you.

Linda Hoenigsberg's avatar

Yes, yes, and yes! Thanks, Brad!

Brad Montague's avatar

Grateful there’s a you, Linda!